GROWING UP WITH A STRICT PARENTS !!!!!

         We try to search a friend in our parents but it always turns out to make us unhappy when we are growing up with a strict parents.

         Growing up with strict parents certainly leads to a situation when we are not able to talk to them about our personal life. We see that our friend's parents are so friendly with them. From relationships in life till sex they knows everything about their child and still support them and guide them and don't force them to follow the rules that so called "society" has created.
       

         But when we try to be friendly to them and expose a secret like about out crush or relationship then we are being made to listen an undeserving lecture from every member in the family and in some case beaten up and the situation worsen when the things reaches to the crush or bf/gf 's family.

         We are not being given permission to be in our own space which gives us happiness. A small conversation for a permission to sleepover at friend's house brings a havoc in our life which later make parents impose more unnecessary restrictions in our life.

         Phone being checked regularly, not allowed to dress up the way we want to, no dark lipsticks, no more hanging out with friends, etc, etc, etc !!!!

        Because of their unnecessary aggressive behaviour we start telling lies to them and turns out to be sneaky and disrespectful person. We feel caged and hence it leads to stress, depression, etc. As we don't share anything with them due to their fear, there is no correct guidance as a friend from our parents which make the child go on the wrong path and take wrong decisions.

     

  So, dear parents if you want your child to turn out to be the pride of yours then instead of building just a parent-child relationship, also add upon friend-friend relationship between u both. Because the children find them the luckiest when they get a best friend in a face of their parents who guides, supports, get angry, crack jokes, do adventures, cook together, etc.

        Parenting is not always about beating up your child and yelling up at them in a name of so called "concern". It is important to make your child realise whole heartedly that why you feel you are right, not making them forcefully realise it by beating them up.
       

   Conversation is a key to every relationship. It builds relationship. Understand them, so that they can understand you. Because they search for love and respect in you and if they don't find it, they go and search it in every next person which sometimes end them up around a dangerous people.
     

      FACT :  Kids raised with strict discipline learn that power is always right and hence bully
                     others.