TALKS ABOUT DIFFICULTIES IN LOVE LIFE :)

* What is Love ?

    Love is a feeling for someone or something where you want him/her to be happy whether with you or without you. You are ready to sacrifice your everything for that single person. You want to look in his/her eyes, feel his/her soul, nurture, protect and stand for him/her.

* Individuality

  When you love somebody you not only have to respect the person but also his/her decisions. 

  You have to grow together not only as a pair but also individually. You both have to understand that before sharing the bond with eachother, there was a bond with self which also needs attention.

      Like how it is necessary to maintain a balance between your studies/career/family/friends and love life, likewise it is very important to understand that yourself needs some time with you. 

  If you are in a relationship or married it doesn't mean that you lost the freedom of sometime going on a solo trip or with your friends.

* Loyalty

  If your partner respects your individuality, then be up a man/women and understand that it is your responsibility to respect him/her, henceforth be     loyal to him/her. 

  Individuality does not gives you the right to hide things from him/her. You are very lucky if you got someone who understands the concept of individuality, so if you will take it for granted then love will take you for granted. 

  Be an open book to him/her. Let your lover read you without any struggle and its your responsibility to allow your lover to read you from your personal life till your professional life. 

* Respect/ Trust / Jealousy

  You have to respect his/her decisions individually and as a couple. If he/she have decided to be casual with his/her ex and have said that his/her ex won't affect the current relationship then trust their words and don't be jealous or make any of them feel uncomfortable.

  After believing the concept of respecting decisions ( and ofcourse the person) it doesn't mean that you will stumble while keeping your point of view in front of that person. Keep your point of view when the topic is on his/her life and when decision is to be made as a couple then, both keep their views on it and together come to a conclusion and take a bang on decision !!!! 

  Don't keep doubting him/her if she is friendly to every next person she meets. Checking phones of eachother is a biggest example of you being doubtful to your bf/gf. 

  Trust and Respect are the pillars of the relationship. If this is weak then your tower of love being reached at whatever heights will pathetically and clashingly fall down.

  Jealousy is the human tendency, but questioning everytime due to this is surely bitter for your relationship. 

* Difference in protective and over-possessive 

  When in a club you find your boy/girl casually talking to someone else of opposite sex and later the other person turn out to be shitty and trying to come close to your boy/girl. And then you go and give a filmy tough punch to the shitty person and ask your boy/girl with care and respect to be firm when you find a person being too close to you and assuring him/her that you understand and is always there for him/her......that's being protective !!!! 

 (Taking the same situation with a small change)

In a club you find your boy/girl casually talking to someone else of opposite sex and later the other person turn out to be shitty and trying to come close to your boy/girl. And you go and grab his/her hand and ask him/her harshly to stop talking to anybody from opposite sex otherwise you would break up and from that day you overreact when you find your partner talking to anybody else...…Darling!! That's being possessive!!

* Misunderstanding ? Then communicate / Efforts

  Girl wakes up one day and feel that more than her , importance is being given by her bf to something/someone else. And she decides to not talk about it to her bf so that the relationship don't take a bad turn. 

  And day after day that small fire in her mind turns into a lava and burst out together one day and henceforth they part ways.

  Right decision? No? But she was thinking to save the relationship then what went wrong ? Communication !!!!!

 

She should have made a mature, calm and polite    conversation with her bf. The key of good relationship is to be an open book to your partner. 

  Relationships are not something which needs hardwork to save it, instead it needs hardwork to make it stronger and stronger so that it cannot be broken by anything negative power. 

  To build the relationship there has to be not only communication but also efforts not just one sided but both the sided. Like how aa train cannot move on railway track if both the sides of the track don't put the equal efforts. 

LOVE EACHOTHER EVERYDAY, BEAUTIFULLY, PASSIONATELY, RESPECTFULLY, GRACEFULLY,  CONTINOUSLY !!!!