SHE IS JUST A TEEN MOTHER/PREGNANT TEEN....
If you know any teenage single mother or a pregnant teenage girl then stay away from her. Because such girls are among those bunch of characterless girls who can go to any extent to fulfill her physical needs. They are a whore. Don't feel bad about her situation because she deserves it. Right?
That's how our society thinks, isn't it?
LET'S TALK IT OUT!
1) For the society with its so-called purity-society norms.
Your definition of purity is "virginity". If that's how you want to define people then I believe you are among those impure individuals. You are impure not only under the norms you have set but also under the norms we have set. In our definition of purity, pure are those, who are mentally pure. Who don't believe in the concept of virginity for women and non-virginity defines men. Who don't see women as a mean to serve men in all the ways but see men as a kind to NOT serve but respect and honor women. In our definition of purity, when a man has the right to say NO, then the women have so too. If a man has the right to say YES to a baby, then women as the right so too. If a girl is with her baby, I find it a PRIDE. Because she will take forward our norms of mental purity to her child and so on. She is adding a soul in this world who knows to respect and have the decency to accept other's decisions. In short, RESPECTFUL AUNTYJI AND UNCLEJI you'll are impure not only in our norms (of thought hygiene) but also the norms set by you'll too respectfully.
2) For the brave- beautiful girl.
You don't need anybody to raise your child well. You are strong enough to not only feed yourself and your child but also your family. Raise your child with pride because you are bringing/ have brought a beautiful soul who would carry your taught norms. Believe in your norms and destiny. If he/she entered the world by you, there is a special reason. Don't think about giving up. Think about standing up and walking again with pride on your nose and ambition in your mind.
3) The reason behind increasing teenage mother/ pregnant teenage suicide. And how to control?
HATRED AND NON-ACCEPTANCE. They have already made one decision that they might not be too proud of. But giving them constant hatred and non-acceptance will worsen their mental condition. They need more love and care during such a phase. If you know anybody who is going through tough times, tell them how you are with her and how proud you are of the girl for being so brave. That's how the number of such suicides can be controlled. I believe that's how you want to be treated too while being in her shoe. IT'S JUST A MATTER OF LOVE AND IT COSTS NOTHING.
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That's how our society thinks, isn't it?
LET'S TALK IT OUT!
1) For the society with its so-called purity-society norms.
Your definition of purity is "virginity". If that's how you want to define people then I believe you are among those impure individuals. You are impure not only under the norms you have set but also under the norms we have set. In our definition of purity, pure are those, who are mentally pure. Who don't believe in the concept of virginity for women and non-virginity defines men. Who don't see women as a mean to serve men in all the ways but see men as a kind to NOT serve but respect and honor women. In our definition of purity, when a man has the right to say NO, then the women have so too. If a man has the right to say YES to a baby, then women as the right so too. If a girl is with her baby, I find it a PRIDE. Because she will take forward our norms of mental purity to her child and so on. She is adding a soul in this world who knows to respect and have the decency to accept other's decisions. In short, RESPECTFUL AUNTYJI AND UNCLEJI you'll are impure not only in our norms (of thought hygiene) but also the norms set by you'll too respectfully.
2) For the brave- beautiful girl.
You don't need anybody to raise your child well. You are strong enough to not only feed yourself and your child but also your family. Raise your child with pride because you are bringing/ have brought a beautiful soul who would carry your taught norms. Believe in your norms and destiny. If he/she entered the world by you, there is a special reason. Don't think about giving up. Think about standing up and walking again with pride on your nose and ambition in your mind.
3) The reason behind increasing teenage mother/ pregnant teenage suicide. And how to control?
HATRED AND NON-ACCEPTANCE. They have already made one decision that they might not be too proud of. But giving them constant hatred and non-acceptance will worsen their mental condition. They need more love and care during such a phase. If you know anybody who is going through tough times, tell them how you are with her and how proud you are of the girl for being so brave. That's how the number of such suicides can be controlled. I believe that's how you want to be treated too while being in her shoe. IT'S JUST A MATTER OF LOVE AND IT COSTS NOTHING.
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