IT'S OKAY IF YOU WANT TO BREAK UP !!

  We get into a relationship in a hope to find a companion for life, somebody with whom you can laugh, cry, crack lame jokes, praise each and every scars of each other, etc, etc ( list goes on and on and on!!!)💓💋

  In the start of this beautiful budding bond everything seems to be blooming, bright, blissful ( I know too much of Alliteration). U feel butterflies in the stomach whenever you see him/her. You find that person to be the one whom shaqshaat bhagvaan ( GOD) have dropped directly in front of your face.

  (NOW COMING TO THE POINT!!) 😆

*UNHAPPINESS 😕

   After some months of knowing eachother you come to know his/her flaws, difference in you both, habits,etc which ofcourse leads to arguments and fights. You try to accept his/her flaws but are unable to do it and after some more time of forceful acceptance you find him/her irritating around you. And you decide to breakup!!!!!!...You will find people throwing emotional quotes on you " True love is acceptance ", " You could have made it worked", " If you would have loved him/her that you would have cherish his every flaws and habits ". BUT BUT BUT… IT IS TRULY OKAY TO MOVE ON IF YOU DON'T GET WHAT YOU NEED. It is completely okay to firstly follow self love. If you were stress out in that relationship then your mental peace is much more important than any other thing.....( Your parents havn't put efforts in giving you a good life to see you being unhappy because of somebody else.....

*DISRESPECT 😫

   Ofcourse you need respect in every aspect of your life from every bond you are with. Lets talk about a real incident. A friend of mine she was in her 2nd month of relationship when she came across disrespectful and doubtful habit of his boyfriend. He used to put a lot of restrictions on her, scream in public, leave her all alone on the street in anger. Everytime she decide to leave he used to put across some idea which used to make her feel special ( not ignoring that his tears used to melt her everytime) and then again next day he used to treat her like she deserves no respect ( let me make clear his trust was not broken by her or his ex anytime). And finally once she decides to not look behind and she broke up. She heard from people that she is the one who left him so she is the culprit of everything and the boy is innocent ( he used to put heartbroken posts to show others that he is at no fault). But for the girl her self respect was much more important that people's shitty talks. 

   So to all those friends of mine who made self love, self peace, self respect and themselves their priority...WELL DONE!! I AM PROUD OF YOU. Relationship with someone are meant to make you happy and if it doesn't INSPITE OF PUTTING EFFORTS, then go where you find happiness. Decisions goes wrong, it's fine. we are not Gods...…

YOUR HAPPINESS IS IN YOUR HANDS....

IF YOU RESPECT YOUR SELF AND YOUR BOUNDARIES THAN OTHERS RESPECT YOU.

I an not asking you to be selfish but to keep youself as your foremost priority when it comes to happiness, love, respect.....and you know what I mean....😉😉